Finding friends online
Online friend matching is here, and it works!
Online matching has become wildly popular due to good reason. Placing a personal ad on YPHH is totally free. It requires very little effort and quickly yields tons of responses, if done properly.
During your first meeting online or cyber introduction there is no need to dress up, bite your fingernails, and wash your car…! Just come as you are, right now, and start sharing yourself, mind and heart!
There are literally millions of people seeking partners for friendship, fun, romance and language exchange via the net. If you are able to travel the planet freely in search of your ideal match, you may choose to conduct a global search. You may also spend MONTHS reading all those ads! Or, you can restrict your search to your hometown and meet someone in person sooner.
One big advantage to online matching is that you can email your prospective match and get to know that person better before you are ready to take it to the next level of meeting up in person. How do they present themselves in writing? Is he articulate, interesting, charming, funny and courteous? Does she sound as sweet as she looks? All these things can be judged by the continued correspondence that takes place before any actual meeting.
If a man emails you pages and pages of mush and poetry everyday for two or three months, chances are he’s interested in more than just a casual affair. He may also be unemployed with too much unproductive time on his hands! Ask questions and trust your intuition. Written exchange also allows you to ‘look before you leap’ into the physical realm and may limit the possibility of proceeding with haste when lust overwhelms rational thought.
Pictures now are becoming the norm in online matching. It’s basic! You want to be able to put a face to all the data that is put before you. And pictures, after all do speak a thousand words. Many members use the ‘photos only’ option to search, and your ad may be overlooked by Mr. or Ms. Right if your picture is not on file. You may upload a photo, or mail it in for scanning. Either option is free. He’ll want to know what you look like, and better that he finds out sooner than later that you truly are as gorgeous as you say. If she’s a mountain biking, rock-climbing, ski-racing athlete looking for same, she won’t waste your time and encourage disappointment when she sees you are a member of the ‘high-cholesterol eat-three-large-pizzas-a-day’ gourmet club. You WILL attract the lady who wants to join your club though! Be proud of who you are and show yourself!
Sounds easy, right? It is, but there are a few things to consider before rushing off to place your ad. Demographic polls indicate that men significantly outnumber women online. Men should write ads that stand out amongst the competition and get attention! Women must specify qualities and attributes sought, or risk generating more mail than there is time in a day to read, let alone time to respond to.